‘It is achievable to be Muslim and a lesbian’

‘It is achievable to be Muslim and a lesbian’

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Miriam hid her sexuality from her strict Muslim moms and dads for decades. Whenever she sooner or later did turn out for them, she discovered it impossible to translate “lesbian” into Punjabi or Urdu. She describes the way the conversation place a finish to her dual life “playing the woman that is straight but caused a rift therefore deep that her dad disowned her.

“we constantly knew I happened to be drawn to exactly the same gender – who are only four to five, once I kissed my closest friend into the cloakroom, we knew then.

“But it had beenn’t that I first started exploring until I was in college. The internet was got by us in the home and there was clearly a dial-up computer in my own bro’s space – it had a lock in the home.

“we used to go on Yahoo chat, from the often we pretended I happened to be a person, with regard to talking with ladies. Then from 18, 19, we thought, ‘maybe i have to try to find lesbian women’. “

Miriam* spent my youth in A muslim that is traditional family Bristol where her grandfather “ruled the roost”, with Islamic sermons and prayers five times per day. (more…)